As Mike Vrabel attempts to move on from the scandal involving NFL insider Dianna Russini, an expert is arguing that the New England Patriots head coach has more work to do if he wants the headlines to go away.
“Vrabel is running, in my opinion, a staged rehabilitation, albeit somewhat clumsily,” Molly McPherson, a crisis communications and strategy expert with more than 25 years of experience, told USA Today Sports in a story published on Monday, June 8. “Everything he’s doing is sequenced to move from that initial denial in the beginning to where we are now.”
She added, “He still hasn’t taken accountability, so people are still going to look for it.”
Vrabel, 50, and Russini, 43, were seen together in photos published by Page Six in April, which showed the two interlocking hands and sharing a hot tub at a luxury resort in Arizona the month before.
Since then, the pair — who are both married to other people and share children with their respective spouses — have been seen in resurfaced pictures and videos together dating back as far as March 2020.
While Vrabel has publicly admitted to having “some difficult conversations” with his family and those within the Patriots organization in the wake of the scandal, he has stopped short of explicitly admitting to ever engaging in an extramarital affair with Russini.
“Accountability that only activates when you get caught isn’t accountability,” McPherson said. “And Mike Vrabel hasn’t taken any accountability. He’s only spoken publicly about what he’s doing privately as a person.”
Right before the start of the 2026 NFL Draft, Vrabel revealed that he would be attending counseling amid the scandal.
“I promised my family, this organization and this team that I was going to give them the best version of me that I can possibly give them. In order to do so, I have committed to seeking counseling, starting this weekend,” Vrabel said in a statement to ESPN on Wednesday, April 22. “This is something that I have given a lot of thought to and is something I would advise a player to do if I was counseling them.”
The statement continued, “I have always wanted to lead by example, and I believe this is what I have to do to be the best husband, father and coach that I possibly can be. This is not an easy thing for me to admit, but it is one that I know will make me a better person. I appreciate the support that everyone has given me and promise a stronger resolve as a result.”
Vrabel has been married to his wife, Jen, since 1999, and the couple share sons Tyler, 25, and Carter, 24.
The head coach provided a succinct update last month when asked about his current work-life balance.
“My family is great,” he told reporters on May 27. “I love Jen, I love the boys.”


